His promise.........Jeremiah 29:11

I live in Shelbyville, KY with my awesome husband, Tim, and our incredible 8 year old son, Joseph. I was born and raised in Chattanooga, TN and moved to the central KY area 15 years ago when Tim and I married on August 14, 1993. My time in KY has been a huge blessing in my life and I look forward to seeing where the Lord will lead me.

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Tuesday, August 21, 2007

Weather related laundry troubles


Due to the weather and my incessant need to wear dry pants, I am forced to use the dryer for the first time in over a month. I have truly loved using the line-dry method. It makes me feel good to save money, energy, help a little with the environment, and do a good thing for my family. But, alas, today is not a day for that. I would just hang my clothes on the lines in the house, but there is no time for that. You see...I didn't plan very well for this load of laundry and, therefore, I am forced to revert to old habits. Let's just hope the sky is brighter tomorrow and I have a little time to dry clothes the old fashioned way.

Thursday, August 09, 2007

Joseph is going to be Homeschooled


You read it right. I am going to homeschool my son. I'm excited about it, actually. I think that he is going to grow stronger in knowledge of all subjects this year than he has at any other time in his education. I really want him to succeed and I am going to do everything in my power to help him get the best education possible.

I have had several people ask me, "what are you going to do to make sure he gets socialized?" Honestly, I'm not really too concerned about that. Joseph is not your typical child. Even when he is in a room full of kids his age he tends to not socialize with them. The reason for this is he is different. It's not bad to be different, unless you are put in a school where everyone wants to you to be just like the other kids...then you've got a problem. We saw this time and time again in the past with Joseph. Even in 1st grade kids would make fun of him for being different or they would get him to do things that would get him in trouble simply for their entertainment. The developmental delays that Joseph has will most of the time keep him from saying no to his peers. Therefore, he gets in trouble and his "friends" get a good laugh. It's not fun to sit and watch it happen to your son, believe me.

So, I honestly think that Joseph's socialization is going to be better than if he were in a normal school setting. Many of you probably don't know that in todays school systems it seems to be considered "the norm" for a child in the 2nd grade to have up to 2 hours of homework per night. I don't know about you, but that seems a little extreme to me. Why do that to kids? What ever happened to the notion of letting a kid be a kid? I want my son to have time to play, to explore, and to learn at his own pace. I want him to enjoy learning!

There are tons of books and articles out there on the subject of homeschooling and socialization. I'm glad. It's time that we stand up and take our children's lives back and give them freedom to be who God has made them to be. I will also direct you to the blog of my friend Kari McGrath. She has written a great entry titled, "Socialization-Schmocialization". Read it over...you won't be sorry.

Saturday, August 04, 2007

German Conveniences or What I Wish We Stupid Americans Would Do!

Now that I have been home from Germany for almost a week there are a few things about the country that I really miss. I've always thought that America (most specifically Kentucky) was the best place in the world, but lately I'm not so sure. We do a lot of things here in America that I'm honestly not too proud of.

First of all...our energy attainment and consumption. One of the things that most impressed me in Germany was the great use of Wind Energy. This is not a new phenomenon, nor is it an outdated one...it's just something that we in America do not use for some reason. I can't for the life of me figure out why. It's cleaner, more efficient, and the windmills are far more attractive than the big old transformer stations here in the states. In America we also have extremely HIGH energy bills and most people don't do anything to combat it. One of the conservation ideas that Tim and I have decided to use is drying our laundry outside. What ever happened to this notion? Why did we stop doing this? When did Americans decide that it's far better to use up tons of energy AND ruin their clothes in the process? I just consider this to be completely stupid on our part. I can remember when a common site in every neighborhood was backyard clothes lines with sheets flapping in the breeze. So, upon returning to the states (and getting my bearings) I went out and purchased some clothes drying racks for $10 a piece, some decent detergent, and a good fabric softener. Our clothes actually feel better, look better, fit better, and smell better. Duh!

This one is going to sound a little strange to most of you, but I don't care. Pay toilets. You got it. Why not? You're using water! You are dirtying up someones bathroom. Why not pay for it? We used these several times while in Germany and it wasn't at all bad. The toilet paper was nice, the facility was always clean, and it didn't stink. As Americans we have become so used to the idea that we DESERVE so much that we take things for granted...and in return our public facilities are NASTY!

Another observation is about fresh food products. Here in America we have all but lost the idea of fresh foods. By this I mean breads, cheeses, meats, and even produce. While in Germany we had some of the best of the above mentioned products and it took effort to get each of these things. I loved it! There are fewer fat people in Germany and I think is part of the reason. Not to mention that the people in Germany are generally more active (a HUGE part of it). So many people rode their bikes to get to work, the market, to visit friends, to enjoy the day, etc. This does go back to the energy consumption issue, but it is about food as well. You can't take a bunch of groceries home on a bike...can't be done. But you purchase what you need and that's it. What a great idea!

My final thoughts are about the use of trains. This was also very big in Germany. I know that a lot of people in the Northeast portion of the states have decent access to train service but those of us in the South do not. Why? What's wrong with them? They seem far more efficient to me. Even seeing lots of buses around here would be nice. Do you know I have not see a single public bus since moving to Shelbyville. Now that's just sad. Again, the American idea of car ownership is so twisted that we are ruining the land we live in (and most of us can't really afford to put gas in our cars anyhow).

I guess I'm telling you all this because I think that something should change. But how? What? When? Where? Does anyone know where to start? Or how to go about it? Any ideas can be posted here. In the mean time, I have laundry to hang outside.